Zodiac Lists

Venus in The Astrological Signs

Venus in Aries

When it comes to matters of love you prefer to conquer rather than to be seduced. You enjoy the chase and a partner who you can never quite entirely catch, as a partner who is boring will soon have you looking for greener pastures. You look for friends who are get up and go types and enjoy doing exciting things like you do. You expect to be the directive partner in relationships and the one who drives the action in any partnerships, with colleagues or with friends.  You are a natural when it comes to organising social events and getting people together. You have the knack of bossing people around softly enough that they enjoy doing what you ask them so nicely to do. You can be impatient when getting involved in a new love interest as you like to go quicker than most but as its Venus you will be polite and well-mannered about it. Venus in Aries has all the initiative of Aries with the diplomacy and balance of Venus. Any position that handles people and builds harmonious relationships will be part of the mix as to earning or generating income. 

Aries: Cardinal Fire – Actively seeks Action: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Taurus

You approach love and friendship slowly and discerningly because you prefer quality over quantity. You enjoy relationships that endure and remain stable and will choose a partner not only because they are drop dead gorgeous but also because they smell nice and are of the means to provide you with the lifestyle you desire or are accustomed to.  You are tactile and seek a partner who is as touchy feely as you are. Sensuality and affection and the reciprocation from your partner will be important considerations before you will say “I do” You will love food with a gourmet palette and social functions that share food or the food you have prepared. You have creative abilities in design and the styling of all things that can be touched and seen. The ability to craft, make, arrange or supply objects of beauty and or function will be in the mix of earning or generating income. Manners are important to you and being polite is the mainstay of your relationships. You avoid conflict or terse arrogant types as you pretty much only want to engage with others in a pleasant exchange or not at all.

Taurus: Fixed Earth – Persistently seeks the Material: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Gemini

You do like to talk and you like people and lovers who talk back.  You seek friends who are light hearted; enjoy a joke or some of your quick wit and like to exchange stories. As there are two sides to the twins of the Zodiac you will have two distinctly different sets of friends - one will have to do with the boring drudgery of life as you see it and the other set will be fun and intellectually stimulating in social settings. You are able to speak in a voice which is a pleasure to listen to and you have creative writing skills or abilities in journalism or news reporting. You do well in roles that report on and communicate about relationships, socialising or monetary topics. You likely have played cupid for some of your friends as you can always put people together and get them talking, you may even unknowingly have introduced your partner to their next partner.   You have the ability to work a crowd like a maestro conducts an orchestra – either to sell them something or get them introduced or throw in a gem to get them talking or debating – stimulating the conversation.

Gemini: Mutable Air – Flows with and seeks Ideas: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Cancer

You are a talented and creative person who in matters of love is caring and seeks a partner who likes to be as private as you do. You take the lead in relationships in a caring and concerned manner, making people feel comfortable and you have an excellent ability to listen to others and draw them out of themselves. You are a person who lives and breathes creativity in every part of life, whether it’s a project your busy on or the ability to come up with a creative solution – you are happiest when you’re bringing life to others or to babies or to objects or to breeding animals, sprucing up the car on the weekend or fixing one of the kids toys. You enjoying and gain pleasure from helping others, mothering your friends, nurturing your partner/spouse and kids love you. In matters of money you will always be careful to manage your nest egg so as to ensure that your needs and the needs of your family will always be met. You will be a good saver and will manage the family budget in any relationship. Any positions that require interviewing or face to face meetings to gather information assist with forms or provide assistance/care to others will be part of the mix as to earning income.

Cancer: Cardinal Water – Actively seeks Emotions: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Leo

In matters of love you seek to find your King or Queen so as to build your kingdom of friends, lovers and dynasty. When you fall in love you do it in style and you want the whole world to know about it. You will be attracted to others who can get past the showy stuff and see your heart for who you really are. When that connection is made you fall for them hook line and sinker. You will put more time into those who show you loyalty and those who listen more than speak as you do like an audience. Your creativity lies in your performance abilities and the pleasure you feel when in the spotlight. You enjoy being noticed and will attire yourself in such a way so as to attract attention and receive those welcome compliments you enjoy. You enjoy socialising and meeting up with friends, you do not enjoy your own company as much as the company of others. You don’t like being alone and ought to always live with others. Living alone is not compatible with your nature unless it’s in the 12^th House or conjunct Uranus. You can be selfish at times; more so in your youth than your maturity as you learn to balance your self-serving needs with the needs of others. Any positions that involve leadership and you being noticed and revered will be part of the mix as to earning income.

Leo: Fixed Fire – Persistently seeks Action: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Virgo

You love to do things for others to show them that you love them. You do this because it makes you feel happy – it looks like you make others happy by doing this but the motivation is really all about you and what gives you pleasure. Your critical voice and eye for detail is where your creative abilities lie and will be part of the mix as to earning income. Overthinking yourself into a state of anxiety and worry can occur when your overly critical voice is set against yourself or your friends or your partner/spouse. Issues with relationships will set you off by a loss of appetite or binge eating. Hobbies that involve lots of little bits being formed into a whole with much detail can assist your mind to settle and gain clarity as to your relationships with others. Making and crafting with others, for others or showing them how to will give you pleasure as will any puzzle solving activities. Learning to see the big picture in relationships rather than being stuck in the details with the nose to the grindstone just living one thing after another can lead to ruts and a loss of the romance of marriage. Date nights and taking time out from all the work regularly will aid in the big picture of your marriage. You find it hard to ask for help from others and like to do everything yourself and for others. Outer planet transits to Venus will cause you to ask for help and get it.

Virgo: Mutable Earth – Flows with and seeks The Material: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Libra

You are charming, attractive and nice to people. You have the ability to form friendships and create social groups with the flair and grace of the natural host. You form relationships with others with ease and have the knack of gathering contacts at a bus stop or in a supermarket line.  You like people who are polite and not rough around the edges. You avoid conflict, arguments or disagreements because you just don’t like them, don’t do them and don’t want to be involved in them. You can dress yourself or a room with style that others just melt over. Your creative abilities lie in how you present yourself so perfectly groomed, in lovely colours and come across to others as pleasing on the eyes. You have an eye for all that is aesthetic and pleasing and this will be part of the mix as to how you earn an income. You also have abilities to mediate and/or negotiate with and on behalf of others. You are the perfect diplomat approaching others with balance and perspective.   You also seek perfection in your love relationship and may constantly think that your perfect partner is yet to come – your happiness and peace of mind lay in the acceptance that you are in the perfect relationship for you at this time in your life.

Libra: Cardinal Air – Actively seeks Ideas: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Scorpio  

Seriously! You are serious when it comes to matters of love and friendship. You’re not the second chance type and if in the rare moment that you do give them a second chance – that’s definitely an indication that you love them an awful lot! Love without passion is devoid of the depth you seek when forming love relations and trustworthiness is essential to form any friendship, alliance or colleague relationship. You are sensitive to the undercurrents that go on in personal relationships and generally can sniff bullshit from forty feet! You will not tolerate fools and you will not allow yourself to lose control. When you form the bonds of love and commit to a spouse you really do play for keeps and the honour of your vows and theirs as it makes you feel content and safe being “off the market”. Intimacy in your love relationship is very important to you so as to fulfil your needs and a sexless marriage is the beginning of the end of that relationship. Your circle of friends will be built on years of friendship as you keep the few who you trust implicitly and have foundations of proven care and loyalty with. You are intense when relating to others and any positions that relates to others in intense and sensitive ways will be part of the mix as to earning income.  You keep your financial affairs to yourself – it’s no one else’s business!

Scorpio: Fixed Water – Persistently seeks Emotions: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Sagittarius

If it’s not fun for you with others you won’t turn up! You seek excitement and fun experiences with friends as you do with whoever you fall in love with. If it’s boring you’re out of there! You seek stimulating and interesting pastimes or pleasures and you have the ability to relate to people from all walks of life, demographic or socio economic group. Travel or airports could be your middle name, you love having your pass port stamped on the way to another life enriching adventure with your spouse and best friend. You also have a knack of being able to show others how to do things or find things or you’re the one who knows the person they need. You love to get out and about and meet others anywhere, any time or in any city so it’s not surprising that you know so many people. You’re not the stay at home type at all, that’s no adventure, that’s no fun; engaging with others and letting the day take you where it ends up is much more to your liking. Any positions that give you this freedom will suit you and be part of the mix as to earning income. You love learning and enjoy having friends who have interesting pursuits and knowledge. You don’t just make friends – you want to understand them and understand love and everything about your spouse. You are compelled to learn more about yourself and your partner so as to have a pleasurable and loving relationship.

Sagittarius: Mutable Fire – Flows with the Action: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Capricorn

You are the salt of the earth, you always do what you say will for others and you can be relied on and trusted to always come through. You do have trouble saying no to others for fear of being rejected or un-liked. You are also far too hard on yourself in personal relationships which can hold you back from fully expressing all of what you feel, fear and love. You form friendships slowly as you build trust, you also fall in love with some coaxing and convincing that they do mean what they say when they say they love you. You also hold yourself back in social settings until you have assessed the norms, etiquette, rules, guidelines or protocols. Once those are established you will drop some of your guard and loosen up a bit, then you will start enjoying yourself. It doesn’t take much to impress you, as you appreciate the simpler and more practical activities with others and you prefer sustainable relationships and friendships as you are generally in there for the long haul with the few people you hold close and dear to you. You also tend to attire yourself in tones and colours that don’t stand out too much and would be the utter opposite of flashy or showy. You prefer to blend in rather than stand out. You are good with the money you get and your ability to manage and budget your financial affairs is outstanding. Frugal would be harsh but how else will you get there? Any positions requiring the management and or withholding of funds will be part of the mix as to earning an income.  

Capricorn: Cardinal Earth – Actively seeks the Material; Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Aquarius

Your friends are everything to you even to the detriment of your actual family as you believe in a connection to all human souls and you relish in getting out there like the social butterfly you are and enjoying the rich and varied human landscape with a chance to mingle. You are a strong advocate for the individual and their rights when it comes to relationships and you will know people of all genders, sexuality and partnership types. You will seek friendships on the fringes with people who aren’t necessarily considered the majority or the have the capacity to represent themselves. Any positions that stand up for the rights of others will be part of the mix as to earning income. When it comes to love you need a friend first and a lover second, you also need some room to move as anyone who attempts to stifle your freedom won’t last long. You don’t mind doing things alone and you have a friend for every mood. You can be inconsistent with who your spending time with and at times you can be distracted and not plugged in to the person you are in the company of. As you can be caught up with thinking and visualising things in your head you can also be oblivious to the feelings going on with others. There will be lessens about feelings in love relationships and being plugged in and less dismissive of people’s feelings whilst you posit another intellectual perspective instead. Love for you is a meeting of minds as much as it is a meeting of hearts. A meeting of world and humanitarian views all form your needs being met in a love union. You manage money in unusual ways or earn it by unusual or irregular means.

Aquarius: Fixed Air - Persistently seeks Ideas: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money.

Venus in Pisces

You are romantic; soft lights, a candle, the mood is set, the music has been selected and you hope to merge blissfully after dinner into the arms of your true one. Love is your faith and faith is your love, your partner is your soulmate and you would feel empty without them. You choose kind and caring friends who are as sensitive as you are, as compassionate as you are and above all have a respect for the humanness and fragility in all of us. You have the sensitive ability with others to just sense what is going on for them, you don’t need language to read others you just feel it, know it, you just can. A gesture, a look, a vibe, an energy flow you’re picking up on – you may even have trouble describing it with language and may need to use a picture, a sound, some music or a poem to get it across. Yours is the ethereal zone beyond what is logical or seen, your empathy extends to all humanity and beyond into the world of sprit. There will be lessons of having to discern more and protect yourself with boundaries and lines of demarcation so as to not be so vulnerable or gullible. Any positions that care for others or sacrifice self interest in relationships will be part of the mix as to earning income. You will enjoy socialising in small parties in private, natural and picturesque places. You love nature and gain much pleasure form gardens, parks and waterside areas. You tend towards worship and finding your way to commune with the spirit within and without will give you a sense of harmony and balance. You can lack financial acuity as you let it slip through your fingers in the pursuit of pleasure.  

Pisces – Mutable Water: Flows with Emotions: Venus; in relationships, pleasure and money. 

The Moon in the Houses

Moon on The Ascendant

A Planet on an Angle is a strong statement in the Natal Chart. The Ascendant is intuition and the Moon is intuition - making this placement very sensitive to everything going on around them. The Ascendant is where we wear a mask and wear our clothes. The Moon is our most personal; feelings and emotions and a somewhat private energy. When the Moon is on the Ascendant, the emotional self is difficult to hide from others. This is not a favourable position for a poker player because this placement will wear their feelings in their faces. They will appear to others as a compassionate caring person who can be quite moody. Other people are drawn to Moon on the Ascendant as they feel safe and nurtured in their presence; perfect strangers will open up to the Moon on The Ascendant person.  Their ability to make others feel comfortable is outstanding. As The Ascendant is an axis the opposite side is the Descendant. The Moon is also opposite the Descendant which relates to significant others, partnerships and marriage. They will project these qualities onto those relationships and therefore seek out people who are caring, nurturing, compassionate and moody. The Descendant is sensation – they will look to others to experience emotional situations with and they will seek out emotionally competent close relationships.

The Moon in The First House

The Sign of the Ascendant is the cusp of The First House. Therefore this House is an Angular House; “to be”. The First House is all about the self, the wants, needs, demands and focus are self-involved and self-motivated, the ‘me’ in ‘me first’ is found in the First House and to some extent in the Fifth House. The Moon in the First House focuses the emotions and feeling in the self. Their feelings come first, they love themselves before others, their memories are focused on their experiences – if it wasn’t about them they don’t remember! The Mother is a prominent figure in the person’s life that is seen as quite directive and straightforward. The Moon rules Women and issues relating to women and regardless of the gender of the chart there is receptivity to the roles of women in their lives. It also indicates a keen intuitive ability as the person is sensitive to the vibe going on around them, they have an ability to read the emotional landscape in their immediate vicinity. It may not hit them immediately but as the processing of feeling occurs; it will dawn on them exactly what went down and what’s going on. This is not a language process; it is not articulated by the mind, it is a sense, like a flavour mixing in fluid. They are often found in caring or community roles.

The Moon in The Second House

The Second House is a Succedent House; “to use”. It is your body which is your first possession. The Second House is all about what is mine – my body, my possessions, my objects, my money and my values/beliefs. As most of us no longer live in hunter gatherer tribes and we require money to buy food and shelter, money is Second House because it is attached to the sustainability and protection of our bodies. The Second House is also concerned with sentimentality and the traditions that formed the values and beliefs that are held. The person will be more open to the conservative values of the mother. This is a position where emotions are invested in objects, furniture and possessions relating to deeply held feelings, the mother or mothers line of the family. This can make for a dealer in olden wares and antiques or equally a hoarder of everything imaginable. Emotional imbalance can lead to the squandering of money, retail therapy, refusing to give up objects and the wilful destruction of objects attached to ill feeling and emotional pain. Binge eating can be found here as can be fine dining and opulence depending on the emotional condition of the person. Feeling good is attached to food, luxury and the manifestation of actual things that can be touched and seen. Saving for a rainy day is the Moon in the Second; they will do what is needed to secure the safety and protection of their domicile. They will also consider their monetary affairs to be private and are likely to be wealthier than they portray themselves to be. They are unlikely to reveal to anyone any financial problems or lack of cash flow; it will be managed quietly and out of the sight of others. If you are dating a Moon in the Second it’s the old flowers and chocolates routine and a bit of old fashioned courting. Even a Fire Moon will be slowed down in The Second House. In matters of intimacy this is a sensual tactile slow moving position for the Moon which is passive in ‘position’ and prefers to receive than to lead.

The Moon in The Third House

The Third House is a Cadent House; “to understand”. It is all about thinking, talking and moving around that which is local and familiar. The Moon in this position is emotionally affected by whatever is going on around their local neighbourhood. They will be plugged in to what is going on and feel a connection to locals and neighbours. They are also emotionally in tune with siblings and are keenly intuitive about what is going on for close familiar relatives. This position of the Moon needs to talk about their feelings and to analyse their feelings as to why they are feeling the way they are feeling. They can also become quite restless when facing ill feelings or emotional imbalance. Walking can assist them to sort out how they feel and it will cause fatigue so they can sleep, rather than lie awake all night worrying about the emotional situation. They will also go on long drives, train or bus trips to sort through their emotions or just because it makes them feel good to travel around their town. The intuitive Moon has the ability in this position to read the nonverbal communication of others – the body language, the gestures, the look on their face, the vibe they put out and they have the ability to read the language used; through an extraordinary auditory interpreter. It’s almost as if they can hear the spaces between the words and the pauses have as much if not more to say than the language chosen.  Intense or strong emotions can cause this position to gag the tongue, making it difficult to near impossible to articulate or communicate at all. The person may just cry and babble making no sense at all as they are so overwhelmed by emotion equally they have the ability to express emotion and empathy through the voice and can make brilliant speeches as they can touch and connect with their audience. If the Moon in the Third understands the why behind the feeling – they feel good. Where no understanding can be reached they have trouble letting the feeling go.

The Moon on The IC

The IC is The Nadir of The Chart; it is The Midnight position in The Natal Chart. It is not seen, it is hidden from the view of others, unless those others are in your Family or very close circle. It is where we are all private; The IC represents our homes and our families. It is the bloodline, gene pool and heritage of the family line. The Sign on The IC will describe one layer in The Family Story, when a planet is on The IC; the Family Story picks up a bit, as the Planet becomes another player in the layers of the Family Story. The Moon is emotions and feelings; it is also the Mother and the Women of the Family in this position. It is a strong indication that the person hails from the matriarchal line of the family. It is a strong position of a caring nurturing creative person who loves being at home. They are not looking for any recognition from the outside world only the acknowledgement from their family and loved ones. As The IC is opposite The MC as it is an axis – the Moon is denoted as being Moon opposite MC. The opposition is the energy of creative/ created conflict that causes action to be taken that is not entirely comfortable. The MC is the most public position of The Natal Chart; it is often associated with career. When The Moon opposes the MC – the person is known for being a caring person, a sensitive and compassionate person – the conflict arises because they do not want to be publicly fussed over, they prefer to be private. Some days they really do not want to leave the house – working from home or at home will often suit them better; even working in other people’s homes would be preferential to the same old office every day. The Moon is changeable and wants variety.

Note: The Moon can be conjunct the IC from The Third House or it can be conjunct from The Fourth House. It is conjunct the IC and opposite the MC. The difference is for the Third House as it focuses the energy through siblings, close and familiar relatives, communication and mobility. The Moon in The Fourth will be the stronger statement as relating to the expression of the Moon through the family and home.

The Moon in The Fourth House

The Sign of the IC is the cusp of The Fourth House. Therefore this House is an Angular House; “to be”. The Moon is where we find comfort for ourselves in the chart and tend to our emotional needs. Here The Moon is most comfortable nestled in the bosom of mother and family in the home. There is a deep emotional attachment to the family home and to the family’s homeland and cultural base. There will be a preference for living with women or in a communal to highly interactive community. There is a strong need to create the sense of family, that being biological or otherwise. This is also a highly intuitive position for the Moon – the ability to sense what is going on without language is strong. Don’t be surprised when this position of the Moon is one step ahead of you. There is a love of family functions, events and gatherings or the coming together of a close knit community. They will also enjoy private club activities as they love to feel that they are part of something, again part of a family. The Sign will shed light on the details of the type of interests that may grab them. A home that does not feel right is not the home of a MOON in the Fourth House, they must, must, feel secure, safe and protected at home. It is their shell; never underestimate just how private these people are! They will deflect any attempts of poking a nose in where it wasn’t invited, they will not take kindly to unannounced or uninvited visitors, they will covert and collect those who fit their emotional disposition and anyone else is not welcome. They will suffer the social norms required of them but their true feelings will be safely tucked away in the background where no one can see them.

The Moon in The Fifth House

The Fifth House is a Succedent House; “to use”. The Fifth House is concerned with the self, with fun and recreation, games and speculation, it is children and the inner child and it’s the spark of love between lovers. When the Moon is in the Fifth they enjoy socialising and mixing with others, they have an emotional attachment to children and strong feelings about the lives of children. They will gain enormous satisfaction and pride from being a parent. Even as a non-parent they will associate and contribute to the improvement of children’s lives. There is an innate need to protect and nurture young lives. The Moons intuitive energy in this House has a keen ability to tune into trends speculatively with success. The Moon in The Fifth is a team player in many respects here the Moon wants to belong to a creative team, a sports team, a social club, a mothers group, the committee at school or on the board of a community organisation aiding children and parents with the focus on the children.  As the Fifth is the House of Lovers, the Moon here seeks to love and to be loved. This is not a position of commitment or long term relationships, it is the sensation and feeling of being in love, it represents the first spark of love between people or for some it is a lust train for life. To assess the commitment and long term relationship pursuits – the entire Natal Chart requires assessment. This description is in pure terms and is not considering any compromising aspects from other planets. Some of the most ardent sports fans are found with Fifth House planets – the Moon adds an emotional flavour and the feeling of belonging to a family of fans and spectators. There is a great deal of creativity associated to The Moon in the Fifth as The Moon is The Divine Mother and the Creator of life and the Fifth House is the spark of creative light from the Sun – the natural ruler of the fifth. Creative pursuits provide an outlet for emotional expression and the act of creation provides good feelings and contentment – a return to centre. Creativity improves self-confidence and self-expression.

Note: The Moon is our habits. In the Fifth beware of the habits you create for yourself as they will be hard to break. The other warning re the Moon in the fifth is re Gambling and the need of The Moon to belong. If the Moon is debilitated by a compromising of the energy from an outer planet – that loneliness can translate to sitting in a hotel mindlessly playing poker machines, slot machines or the blackjack table at the local Casino. Equally a well aspected Moon in the fifth can have some talent in this area; as the local Bingo Champion, Bridge Player or Card Reader.

The Moon in The Sixth House

The Sixth House is a Cadent House; “to understand”. The Sixth House is about your health and wellbeing, it’s your daily routine and often where we all earn a living. The Moon in The Sixth House means that your health and wellbeing are entwined and attached to your feelings, emotional world and habits. If you don’t feel right you are likely going to be unwell physically somehow. The Sixth House is where we find health food and eating healthy nutritional food is important for all sixth house planets but critical for the Moon in The Sixth. Binging on junk food for this placement means they are not feeling good and something is affecting their emotional balance. This is followed by feeling physically sick because bad food makes them feel bad. The Moon here will fall over one lesson after another re their food sensitivities until they understand what is going on, they are forced to analyse it and make the changes to the diet that their body requires. The sixth is also about service to others; as it is by serving others that the self is served with this placement. The Moon cares for others and is a nurturer on a daily level; they are often employed in areas where they are providing a service to others. Routines and stable daily activities and schedules provide a sense of emotional comfort to this Moon placement. The Moon is changeable and adaptive and you can be sure that this placement has a backup plan that has worked before. As the Moon is Mothers and Women the sixth house Moon will have daily interactions and contact with them, the Moon here will seek relationships that have regular contact and updates as to what’s going on for them. There is an ability to micro manage anything and a preference for working behind the scenes in private with some contact when required but will shun the spot light position. The Sixth is also about small animals and pets – the Moon here has an emotional connection to these animals. They will be pet owners, could work with pets or in animal rescue, the unconditional love of a pet fulfils so many emotional needs of a sixth house Moon they will benefit enormously from the love of a pet. 

The Moon on The Descendant

The Descendant is part of the Axis which represents The Horizon in The Natal Chart. The opposite side of this Axis is The Ascendant. The Ascendant is representative of Sun Rise in The Natal Chart and The Descendant is representative of Sun Set in The Natal Chart. The Descendant is the first place in the Houses that we meet others. When the Moon is on The Descendant the person is emotionally connected to others, they will seek close relationships and friendships that are fluid and feeling orientated. There will be emotional investments in others which satisfies their need to connect with significant relationships in a meaningful and loving way. There is a strong need to be in a partnership or significant friendship with the Moon on this angle. There will be a tendency to be attracted to people who need to be looked after, mothered or nurtured. They will seek out the needy in relationships. They will form relationships based entirely on the vibe, the feeling, the click, the flow and the intuition. It is the type of position that would believe in love at first sight. As the Moon is opposite the Ascendant they will also project a certain level of neediness in their persona, equally they will project a caring compassionate nature onto those around their immediate vicinity. 

The Moon in The Seventh House

The Sign on The Descendant is the cusp of The Seventh House. Therefore this House is an Angular House; “to be”. The Seventh House is your close circle of friends and your spousal relationship aspirations. The Moon here describes a person who is motivated to show their care and concern for others, especially for those who are closest to them. The emotional disposition is connected to significant relationships, partnerships and marriages. The best friend or the spouse is the emotional barometer of this position. If everything is rosy with their friends and spouse, all is well, on the other hand if either of these relationships becomes rocky the moodiness and changeability of the Moon is harnessed into a downhill emotional low. The Moon is moody for everyone somewhere in the chart, in the seventh the moods are very much affected by the state of affairs in their closest relationship. Emotional balance is felt when the feelings of love in their relationship are harmonious and they feel connected to their partner. This is not a position that will suffer a shell of a marriage to keep up appearances, if they do, do this, they will end up depressed or have a break down. The Moon is intuitive and interprets nonverbal signals therefore in the seventh they apply this talent to their spouse, business partners/ associates and close friendships which means trying to hide how you’re feeling from them is futile. You might get away with it in the short term but like rising damp the Moon will pick up on it and that will be the beginning of the end of that relationship. How it feels when they are with you is absolutely everything to this position of the Moon, if they don’t feel right with you they will not be with you. They want a partner who is as caring as they are someone who is also compassionate and has emotional empathy for others, they need someone who they feel safe with and protected by, they are not attracted to emotionally remote people who lack any care or concern for others. It’s all about the love and the connectedness with this position of The Moon.

The Moon in The Eighth House

The Eighth House is a Succedent House; “to use”. The Eighth House is all the other people that are not in your close circle and family. The Moon in this position has the ability to tune into anybody’s feelings and emotions. They also have the ability to sense trends and fads in the collective of the population. The intuitive ability of the Moon here can feel when things are appealing to other people; the emotional barometer is set on the feelings and emotions of others. Like the 12^th House Moon this position will encounter issues discerning whose feelings are actually going on in a situation. There will be a need to establish emotional boundaries for emotional self-protection. There is the capacity for this Moon to face and handle some of the more intense and torrid emotions of others, as they have been there and they get it! To say that these people have been to hell and back with others and within themselves for some would be the understatement of our current century! These are the amazing people that can tune into the emotional pain of others, meet them face to face, then hold out their hand and walk them out of their pain and suffering. The Moon here is quite happy to change their feeling about someone based on their gut feelings and their ability to read what is not being spoken. The Moon senses on a nonverbal level, here it can sense some of the more hidden of hidden feelings, the ability to uncover that which is hidden here is remarkable. It will just come to them, they feel it they don’t think it, some may not even be able to articulate how they know but they do know and they are often spot on. Emotional imbalance will cause them to second guess their gut which will fail and until they bid Persephone a farewell with thanks they will not return to balance from the underworld of their emotional state. This position of The Moon will not suffer a sexless marriage as it is a position that must connect on a sexual level with the person they love. The sexual connection is deep, passionate and binding. Commit adultery to this position and you might as well go to the court and file the papers for divorce yourself! & NO! They will not speak to you again when they find out! This is the position of the Moon that takes the ‘till death do we part’ section of the vows very seriously!

The Moon in The Ninth House

The Ninth House is a Cadent House; “to understand”. The Ninth House is the seeking and gaining of knowledge and the understanding of that knowledge. Here the Moon seeks emotional comfort from understanding by way of books, study and a philosophical or spiritual/religious framework. This position of the Moon wants to know the why behind a feeling, they want to pull the emotions apart and try to find out what is behind them. They do this as a process to work through their feelings and to learn so they do not have to go through it again. This is a ‘learnt it the first time’ position emotionally.  They can work in areas such as psychology & counselling as they are adept in helping others sort through such processes. There is an innate drive in this position to share the feelings and any techniques of dealing with the feelings and emotions so as to grow and develop. Emotional satisfaction will be felt through teaching, instructing, training, nurturing or mentoring others. They will also want to connect with the greater world and all of its cultures through experiences which will compel them to travel the world. There will be a connection to the Goddess of cultures and the icons and rituals of women will appeal to them. The mother’s academic levels will influence the child with this placement. The intuitive Moon here can follow a hunch, a clue, or a fragment and come up with a result as to the where, why and the best solution for everyone to restore harmony. There can be issues for this Moon at times because feelings are not rational and words are useless but they also have the capacity to sense when this is the case and will likely fall back on a story, a Greek myth or archetype to process the emotion through the moral of the story. The Moon in the Ninth will always fall on their feet emotionally where others would fail to extricate themselves from emotionally difficult circumstance the Moon in The Ninth will sail through it. They can do this because they learn from situations and move on or they book airline tickets and they are gone for the summer. They avoid heavy emotional situations they really do prefer light and breezy.

The Moon on The MC

The MC is an important point in The Natal Chart. It represents The Meridian and forms part of The Cross of Matter. The Ascendant Descendant Axis is the other part of The Cross of Matter. It is The Cross of Matter that represents our incarnation upon the earth at birth. The Symbol for the Earth is The Cross inside The Circle; which is the Cross of Matter on The Natal Chart. The MC is the life direction and purpose of the Chart; it is the highest point in the Chart and therefore the most public place in the chart. Planets on The MC stand out and are noticed by everyone. When the Moon is on the MC there is an ability to connect with the public in an appealing sensitive and emotionally connected manner. The MC has long been associated with career which it is but it is the aspiration and the reputation that is described by the MC. Moon on the MC will be attracted to careers that involve people and community orientated vocations. Care Giving, Nursing, Women, Children and Parental Services are all realms of The Moon. Breeding pets/livestock, plants/ propagation, land management and farming are also lunar themes. The Moon is also opposite The IC/ Nadir of The Chart which is a conflict between the demands of the home and family verses the demands of the career that takes us away from the home. Moon on The MC would benefit from a balance between the public and private life. Working more from home/ in private than at the employer’s workplace would suit them best. The Women’s line of the family and the intuition are linked when The Moon is on this Axis.

The Moon in The Tenth House

The Sign on The MC is the cusp of The Tenth House. Therefore this House is an Angular House; “to be”. As the Tenth House is before the Meridian Planets in the Tenth House are not as high as those on the Meridian/MC. Planets in The Tenth House do stand out and are seen as The Tenth House is the most public house; it is associated with being out there, being seen and being noticed. The Tenth House is where we aspire to achieve our career and work aims. The Moon in The Tenth House will be seen as, and have a reputation for being a caring sensitive compassionate person. As the Moon is a private energy and here it’s in a public position they will not be doing what they are doing to be noticed, they likely feel a bit uncomfortable about it but over time they will just accept that they get noticed by others for all the efforts they go to, to help others feel comfortable. They will love to spend time with people out and about. The Moon wants to belong and here they want to belong to a social group of some sort as The Moon in The Tenth Loves Company, it makes them feel loved, protected and secure. They will do well in service industries and tending to the needs of the employees, workforce, group, community organisation or a client group. This position of the Moon would do well in Human Resource Management, Recruitment Services, Real Estate, Childcare and Community Services. The emotions and feelings are connected to social status and the fulfilment of goals. This position feels emotional balance when they are in charge of situations or given the autonomy to work in private or without direct supervision. Emotional imbalance or ill feelings can cause a pulling back from public life to the point of not leaving the house, the abandonment of life aims and the seeming loss of capacity to fulfil the expectations of others. The Emotions can feel overwhelmed in Public places if they do not feel comfortable, as The Moon is intuitive and sensitive these warning signals ought be listened to and acted upon so as to feel safe and to maintain your emotional wellbeing. Our feelings not only nurture us, comfort us, give us sensations of love but they protect us and the Moon in an angular House does this most ardently. In the Tenth it protects others primarily but it does this so as to protect the emotional investment of the self. This is The Axis in action.

The Moon in The Eleventh

The Eleventh House is a Succedent House; “to use”. The Eleventh House is groups of people, friendships, social networks, hopes and dreams. When the Moon is in The Eleventh the emotional disposition is connected to friends and the overall feelings going on in the groups they are involved in. The American Sitcom “Friends” is such a Moon in The Eleventh Series of Seasons. The Moon in The Eleventh is the emotional barometer of the group; they can sense the mood of the group and can be the one who puts voice to what is going on. This can lead to discussion, analysis and problem solving the situation or it can lead to The Moon person being scapegoated, outed as a whistle blower and ostracised until the truth comes out and they are eventually vindicated. There can be a wide variety of friends and groups of people that the Moon associates with in this position – a group or a friend for every mood. The Moon is changeable and in this Air House it likes variety and it can ‘work’ a crowd like a conductor conducts the orchestra. The ability to tune into the tone in the room in a warm and engaging manner is a talent of The Moon in The Eleventh. They will also be very emotionally connected to making their dreams come true, bringing about their hopes and fulfilling their desires. The type of partner they seek will be a friend first as companionship is as important as good sex to this position. They marry their best friend and they have other best friends that they would never sleep with in an intimate manner. This position is concerned with issues that relate to The Sisterhood and Brotherhood of Humanity and they will find satisfaction and good feelings from feeling part of any group who are trying to make the world a better place to live in. There is a core sense to The Moon in The Eleventh that all humans need to care about each other – the duty of care towards others is not only entrenched in law it is entrenched in The Eleventh House Moon. Unlike the duty of care found in the Tenth House Moon which is very much about the law behind the duty, The Eleventh House Moon is more about the responsibility of being a caring human towards other human’s part of the duty of care. The Eleventh House Moon does not need a law to compel them to care for others it’s instinctual to them.

The Moon in The Twelfth House

The Twelfth House is a Cadent House; “to understand”.  The Twelfth House is considered the most hidden part of the chart. I would put it as the second most hidden part of the chart. The Fourth house is the most hidden from view in the sense of privacy and being tucked away behind closed doors. The Fourth House relates to the self-whilst the Twelfth House is above The Horizon and therefore is concerned with others. Planets in the Twelfth may not even be seen when you are in the person’s home. They are hidden from view. When The Moon is in the Twelfth the emotional disposition is hidden from others yet it is tied to the feelings and issues of others. As the energy of the Twelfth House wants to merge and become at one with others, with spirit, with God, with Nature or by arriving at the end of a bottle of Scotch there is an innate sense to this position that nothing is separate from anything else. This can make it difficult to discern where all those feelings, impressions and emotions are coming from. They can feel overwhelmed by the emotional temperament of the collective. The Twelfth House rules the collective unconscious and the Moon is intuitive and has the ability to tap into the trends, fads, issues, concerns of the greater population of the Nation, World or Universe. Some will have very keen intuitive, perceptive and highly tuned sensory abilities. This comes with blessings on the one hand and difficulties on the other. There will be a need to establish emotional boundaries so as to protect the self from the onslaught of the feelings of others bombarding their mood and emotional balance. This is often why they shut themselves away from other people and have a strong preference for spending time alone. Once they can establish boundaries that work like the force fields of space crafts in science fiction they will deal with crowds and social functions without feeling completely drained by the time they get home. Spiritual practices, religious beliefs, talismans and good luck charms may all be effective for this Moon to feel protected and create the boundaries they need for their own emotional health and wellbeing. 

Venus In The Houses

Venus in The First House

The love of self and everything to do with who you are and showing that to others. You always present yourself well and make the most of what you have got so as to be as attractive as you possibly can be.  You are a well presented stylish person with manners, charm and a diplomatic nature. You have a love of fashion, stylish objects and well-designed surroundings. You have a preference for an easy life that does not require too much effort on your part. Surrounding oneself with friends, socialising and meeting up with others and forming relationships with others that serve your own self-interests. Pleasure is found by attracting attention and being complimented by others. You have the ability to turn heads walking down the street. You always check in the mirror before leaving the house so as to ensure you are neat, tidy and well-groomed and nothing is out of place. The self is defined by and through your relationships and friendships. There is a keen eye for design and craftsmanship and the ability to make anything look nice due to your stylish aesthetic.  You pride yourself on your manners and enjoy being polite to others. You have a natural willingness to co-operate with people and get the best experiences when relating to others who are around you.  You avoid conflict or people you consider just plain rude or inconsiderate and most times you have no interest, patience or the energy it takes to bother dealing with it, so you excuse yourself in the nicest way possible and delete them from your contacts.

Venus in The Second House

You have the ability to craft and make beautiful well designed objects. You love, love, love food, the preparation of food and social functions to share and eat food with friends.  Pleasure is found in all that is old and antique, collectable or objects that hold value in sentiment or money. The adept ability to accrue money, attract money and ensure that you have the money for your needs. Value is put on traditions and old fashioned approaches to relationships. Relationships and love interests are formed slowly in order to form solid and enduring married partnerships. You will prefer marriage with the ceremony rather than de facto relationships that lack security and surety.  You take time to engage and form relationships and look for others who align with your values and beliefs. You prefer to be around people who are polite, well-mannered and highly attractive.  Establishing relationships based on how pleasant a person is and with people who are easy to get along with. There is an avoidance of people who are untidy, rude or disagreeable. Venus in the second house people will simply withdraw quietly from situations that don’t feel nice or don’t give pleasure. The belief is held that the fight isn’t worth it and diplomacy wins out in the end. There is a tendency to judge in silence and withdraw contact without explanation. Your body is your temple and keeping it in shape is important to you so as to feel and look attractive, fit and toned in the muscles. Crafting the body through fitness or cosmetic surgery or diet – whichever method is pursued it’s all about the body being as beautiful as you can make it with resources you have.

Venus in The Third House

There is a love of talking and chatting and communicating and texting and posting and the love of your siblings and close relatives. You enjoy socialising in the neighbourhood, being friendly with neighbours and forming relationships in the local community. You have talent in sales and commerce with ability to build relationships, network and come up with clever ideas to sell inventory. You have skilful hands and creative abilities that are dextrous, adaptable and solution orientated. You form friendships that feel like brothers or sisters and you love spending time and having contact with your actual siblings. There is an ability to reflect body language back to others and create comfortable vibes so as to have the most pleasant of communications or exchange of information possible. You love to talk to people and exchange ideas about love, relating, art, pleasure and your social life. Your first port of call when forming friendships or interacting with friends is to speak up with a topic to get everyone talking. You don’t like the silences in conversation or gaps where the conversation seems to have run out. Listening to others and learning when enough information has been shared is a balancing act challenge for this placement. You love your car; you love driving around or being driven around. You will admire luxury vehicles and likely want one but this placement does not guarantee that it just describes the desire. Mobility makes these people happy and if they are unhappy in a situation they are likely to fidget, be restless and resist sitting still. If you do not drive a car you will be the master of public transport and may even know your cab or Uber drivers by name. You are an eloquent speaker, a negotiator, a mediator and have the ability to build bridges in communications between others and on behalf of others. Journalism or other writing pursuits with short content is where your some of your creative skill lies.

Venus in The Fourth House

You love and take immense pride in your home and family. You have creative flair and an eye for design which has the ability to style a room like its being set up for a magazine shot. Your home is tidy and whilst you can be lazy you know this so you will invest in energy saving modern appliances that make housework as easy as possible. You enjoy entertaining at home with family and close friends. You are an essentially private person and only invite people into your home, if you have a significant relationship with them or you are related by blood or marriage. You have a strong investment in your family line; current and past relations define your values and need for connection to your ancestry.  You gain pleasure from the history of your family line, family homes, family land and countries of origin or the motherlands of your family. Home is the nicest place in the world to you, you like being at home, you like to keep your close relationships and spousal arrangements private and inside the home. Matters of family are kept within the family and the financial position of the family is not discussed outside of the home. You come from a wealthy and or comfortable home. You have been strongly influenced by the families approach to finances, money management and balancing the household budget. You are the person who manages the money in the home and pays all the bills and keeps the home running smoothly. You are more inclined to make friends and seek partners through introductions by family members, friends and friends of friends or in a home environment. You will enjoy and take pleasure from crafting and maker hobbies at home and have the ability to derive income from this.

Venus in The Fifth House

You love yourself and the progeny of yourself. You like to make friends with people who are like you. You see yourself as a lover not a fighter and you also enjoy and take much pleasure from intimacy with your lover or lovers. Pleasure is sought through self-indulgence and satisfying your own needs. Seeking out and making friendships with creative people, artists, musicians and crafts or trades people. There is a talent for speculation and accruing money through speculation, taking entrepreneurial risks, playing the stock market or in poker tournaments. Recreation is high on the agenda and you enjoy socialising with friends who share your interests.  This position of Venus can make money from the child/youth sector, recreation and sport or from lovers, sponsors, annuities, shares or gambling. You like to look nice, you have a good sense of colour and flair as to how you style yourself.  You like and attract compliments and are noticed by others. You don’t mind a little bling and shiny things, being smartly dressed, attired and accessorised is important to your confidence and ability to attract lovers. You do not go out looking untidy or without a shower; your personal grooming is immaculate and very important to your self-esteem. You groom yourself so as to fit in and be noticed for all the right reasons and to make the nicest and most cordial of impressions on others. You will also be attracted to lovers and partners who are equally well groomed and who attend to their personal hygiene the way you do. When you have children you will the feel the most creative peak of your ability has been reached and raising your child is one of the greatest pleasures you will experience.

Venus in The Sixth House

You enjoy and gain pleasure from having work to do, having a job to go to every day and a routine that is predictable and set in stone. You form relationships in the workplace that are pleasant and amenable to your needs and will only work in a place that is nice to go to every day. You will not suffer bullies in the work place – you would rather resign and find a job where you will not be bullied. You have no trouble understanding that you get money from working for it and from good relations with others. You have an ability to create relationships, maintain relationships and network amongst people so as to make an income. The lack of money or problems with money leads to worry, anxiety and ill health if a solution is not found. You have a knack of gaining work opportunities through friends, industry or professional networks or by being friendly and pleasant. This position of Venus really does need to enjoy what they do every day, so working in a job they love is paramount to their health and well being. You will enjoy work that is creative, craft or trade based, handles money, stylish objects or serves the relationships of others in a mediating or negotiator role or positions that aid in maintaining health. There is a high likelihood that this position of Venus meets their future spouse at work or connected to work or connected to someone they work with. This position can also tolerate if not love working with your spousal partner. You choose your clothing and outfits to suit your day and the tasks at hand. There is an outfit for every job and kitting up and wearing the correct clothing for the job aids you in feeling like doing the job.

Venus in The Seventh House

Love and marriage is you’re everything on the path to happiness, a good life and the fulfilment of your highest desire. You don’t like being alone, single is a term that describes others; you prefer the company of others over spending any time alone what so ever. Your partner is your rock for feeling good about yourself and how you feel and enjoy pleasure. You enjoy the company of your friends and can’t imagine life without them. You enjoy socialising and having fun with those who are closest to you over and rather than with anyone else. Going to a work function alone or anywhere else is simply not something you will do or tolerate your partner doing. Its team marriage or it’s not a marriage. Its couple central with these people and associating with other couples, you won’t need to ask these people if they are married or are involved and taken they will not be backward in coming forward to assert it directly or indirectly. If Venus in this house is single you will have an extensive network of friends and social contacts that you catch up with and spend time with regularly.  Marrying into money or for money is not outside the realm of this placement. The prospective marital partner will be assessed as to their financial ability to contribute to the marriage so as to live an easy life. You know better than anyone how the tide of love can move to hate in relationships if they breakdown and this is where the open enemies of this house can play out in the most dramatic ways. You will be adept at helping others to go through these torrid times and if you befall such circumstance in your relationship – the bottom will literally fall out of your world, until you pick yourself back up again and go back on the market to find the next love of your life. You will bounce back quicker than Venus placed in other houses because you don’t like being single.

Venus in The Eighth House

You will only be happy in a partnership that is full of love and you get sex often. A sexless partnership is not a loving relationship in your view nor does it align to your needs in a marriage. It is essential to your whole sense of relating that you are able to make and get in return a full mind body and soul connection to your partner. Dalliances and one night stands are not the territory of this placement of Venus, you are monogamous and absolutely against any adulterous behaviour.  If your partner or spouse breaks the vows of marriage and sexual exclusivity or you do – the marriage is over, no if’s buts or maybes – it’s finished.   This is the ‘till death do we part’ placement in the marriage vows; you took this very seriously and fully expect your spouse to have meant it too. If the marriage does fail it will take time to recover and trust again before trying to form another partnership. This is the placement of the banker or person who balances, mediates (the middle man) or negotiates for and on behalf of other people s money. Other people give you money, you are kept by the money of others, benefactors, inheritances or through your relationships with others and ability to form beneficial financial relationships and business contacts. You have a keen adept ability to be charming with how you deal with other people and would be excellent in any role that receives and services others needs in any profession or industry. This is the position of the charming engaging person who can foster relations between others with grace and diplomacy. You have the ability to find the common ground with others and to exploit or grow that into market, business or financial opportunities, corporate alliances, trading partners and affiliates.

Venus in The Ninth House

You have a love of learning, travelling and relating to others who love the subjects you do. You love to travel anywhere you have never been with your partner or close companion. You make friends from diverse cultural and socio economic backgrounds and pride yourself on your multi-cultural experiences, travel and knowledge. An ability to find something in common with most people you meet from wide and broad backgrounds. You are attracted to marriage partners from a different country or cultural background than your own. You form relationships with others based on common interests that broaden your understanding of human relationships and all the ways people have them. You enjoy meeting up with others and gain pleasure from interacting and socialising with others in educational settings, in courses or at conferences or training for professional development. You love learning and enjoy doing anything that expands and develops your knowledge base and you make friends with people who are also like this. You have a love of reading and collecting books as you see books as your friends and will have trouble parting with some of them. You enjoy reading about relationships, romance and stories about couples and their relationships. You love to be where the trend is happening, having fun and doing exciting or adventurous activities with others. You keep up on the news an enjoy periodicals and professional journals or magazine relating to your interests. You pride yourself on having influential friends or well-known people in your contacts list.  You have creative writing abilities and the ability to analyse and seek to understand human relationships.

Venus in The Tenth House

You strive for status and cultivate a reputation of being a nice, agreeable easy to get along with person. You build your career by forming relationships and alliances with others in your public life. You love going out and socialising in friendly stylish and popular venues, parties, social settings or places with beautiful vistas. You prefer meeting up with friends outside of the home, you make friends at work or associated with your career. You always present yourself immaculately with an outfit for every occasion and you would not be displeased by a designer uniform or partner who wears a stylish uniform. You enjoy formal occasions and events that celebrate relationships and the milestones of your personal and public associations and family members. You have public appeal to others and have a reputation of being adept in brokering peace deals, negotiating resolutions between parties or stakeholders and generally being the go to person who fixes the relationships or knows the person who can aid in the resolution.  You build the necessary bridges or form the relationships needed to bring in the money in your work. Your career will involve money, the handling of money, forming monetary associations, networking money alliances or being responsible for money management.  What you love and see as your life direction and purpose may not be your work and you do it because you love it and care not about how much money it costs or you do or don’t make from it. You do it because you get pleasure from it and no other reason is needed. You will seek a partner who also enjoys public life so you have someone to share with and have a partner for social occasions. Your spouse is as much part of your public profile as you are. You are known for being an attractive good looking person.

Venus in The Eleventh House

You love your friends and your lover is your best friend first and your spouse second. You love to go out and do things with a companion or friend rather than going alone. You get a great deal of pleasure and satisfaction from being part of a group, a team or a peer group. Your hopes and dreams are all attached to love and sharing with your love partner, spouse or close companion.  You join groups or teams in order to make friends and form alliances that are pleasant and help the world be a better place somehow. You believe and uphold all the principles of the brotherhood and sisterhood of humans and will gain pleasure and feel happy associating with others who uphold these types of values. You relate to others with acceptance and a belief in their right to express their beliefs and their right to love whoever they want or fall in love with. You have the need to be in a partnership that is accepting of your wide social network and enjoyment of independent activities outside of the relationship.  You enjoy a variety of friends from all walks of life and tend to attract some of the more independent or eccentric characters. You seek a partner who allows you the freedom and autonomy to express your creativity and need for friends that are independent of common friends. The enjoyment of hosting social events and gatherings of people, making introductions and connecting people in the group so as to foster relationships and usher a pleasant experience for everyone in attendance. You make money through or with friends, with groups, in groups or servicing the needs and wants of groups, teams or anything that supports, hosts or convenes gatherings of people in social settings or helping to facilitate their hopes, wishes and or dreams.

Venus in The Twelfth House

You have a love of solitude and prefer to be out of the view of others. You prefer to keep your love relationship hidden from the view of others and are very private about it. It’s a need to know basis only and you do not feel comfortable talking about it or having to disclose it to others. You get pleasure from locking yourself away with your partner in remote and or idyllic environments, hotels or bed and breakfasts for uninterrupted love making and the total indulgence in bliss and pleasure. You are a romantic at heart and you seek a lover who you can feel so completely part of you that you lose yourself entirely in the union of souls. You feel a strong connection with spirit, with God or with a higher power outside of yourself. Your dreams reflect the issues you are feeling in your relationships with others and friends may feature in your dreams in roles that portray what you get from the friendship with them. You have a keen sensory ability to feel what is going on with others and you will need to develop boundaries with others so as to not have your amiable pleasant self, being walked all over and taken advantage of.  You are vulnerable to falling victim to others in matters of love unless you form boundaries and protect yourself. You can be attracted to victims and substance abusers and or become one, if you relate to one, so as to be on the same level to feel loved and less alone.  You have the ability to merge with others and to sense vibes in the collective, learning how to separate yourself with boundaries rather than isolation is the key to finding love, happiness and pleasure in a committed relationship. You enjoy spending time indulging your creative energy on projects in isolation which renews your energy and aids in debriefing yourself from relationship issues of others.